How To Be Attractive When Crossdressing

by Simon

When taking the all important crossdressing step from male to female, there are a multitude of things to think about. From shaving your body to choosing the right undergarments that accentuate your look, through to choosing the perfect outfit, accessories and make-up, the possibilities are endless as well as overwhelming.

But what else does it take to become an attractive ‘female’ when you are crossdressing. Is it just about the look, or is there more to it? In this article we are going to explore a few tips that could help you on the road to becoming the woman you want to be.

Accepting Yourself

First and foremost, the key foundation to living a better life is self-acceptance. Irrespective of what others may think, the most important thing to remember is that there is nothing wrong with wanting to dress as a woman.

Whilst we have explored this in previous articles, it is worth a reminder that crossdressing is not something to shy away from, there is nothing wrong with you. In fact, crossdressing is far more acceptable in modern society than it ever has been.

Just remember - you are you, and you don’t need anyone else's permission to be who you want to be. So now that you have accepted yourself, let's move on to happier topics.

What Makes You Happy?

Having accepted who you want to be, there’s no time to waste - start living life the way you want to. If you are not wasting life, then you will be happy living it. After all, happiness is the root of all our desires.

If going out dressed as a woman is what makes you happy, then go do it. You may decide to take small steps at first, and always make sure to think about your personal safety when stepping out for the first time. The more you take those steps out, the more relaxed you will feel, which will ultimately lead you to feeling both happy and fulfilled.

Remember, you have the right to be happy, and only you can make it happen. Above all, it’s your life and you’re not hurting anyone by being true to yourself!

Use Your Natural Beauty

When it comes to beauty, just remember one important point - some girls will always be prettier than you. Everyone thinks to themselves “I wish I was as pretty as that woman”, and there’s nothing wrong with that, it simply makes you human!

The key here is to accentuate your natural beauty. If you have long slender legs, then use them, but don’t get too hung-up on overthinking things. If you don’t have the perfect jawline, or your hands aren’t feminine enough, then what does it matter, no-one is going to notice. As long as you are happy with your look, and you accept your natural beauty, then that’s all that counts.

Body Language is Important

Having given lots of thought to creating the perfect look for your female self, there is another crucial element to how you create the ideal feminine look when in public - body language.

One of the key aspects of your feminine look is how you walk. When mastering a feminine walk, you need to exude grace, poise and confidence, all of which will make you much more attractive. Start with getting your posture right, with your shoulders back and head held high, then walk using smaller steps allowing your hips to sway gently from side to side.

Another important aspect of your body language is your hand movements. Try to avoid large rigid gestures, and stick to graceful and more delicate movements instead. Make sure you practise keeping your hands relaxed, and gesturing in a soft and subtle manner.

Mastering Your Voice

Once you’ve mastered body language, the next significant part of your role is your voice. If you can create a feminine voice that works well to support your look, then you will greatly enhance your overall feminine appearance.

Start off by practising some breathing techniques, breathing deeply from your diaphragm rather than your throat (a bit like singers do). Then focus on speaking in a soft more melodious tone, remembering to pay attention to your pitch. Keep the range fairly high and then practise speaking slowly to ensure you speak clearly.

Be Confident and Smile!

Someone once told me, “preparation is key, the more you prepare, the less anxious you will be”, and how right they were. When it comes to getting ready and applying make-up, time and patience is everything. Crossdressing isn’t just about the transformation, it's about the confidence of being your other self.

Once you have built confidence, the most important accessory you can use to finalise your look is to smile. When you smile, you feel happy and in turn you boost your confidence. You will hold your head high, feel tall and attractive, and go out into the world as the best ‘female’ in town - and don’t be surprised if you get a lot of attention, since you definitely deserve it!

Just remember the most important thing. However you make yourself more attractive, and whatever you decide to wear - Be Yourself and Enjoy It.

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